What is proper remote working etiquette? We know, it’s difficult to navigate the concept of ‘professionalism’ when many of us are working in makeshift home offices, at dining room tables, and a not-insignificant portion of the staff is probably in pajama pants. 

As many of us settle into the fact that we’ll be doing this for quite some time, we’re perhaps coming to realize that we need a bit of structure and/or guidance on what the new normal’s business-as-usual meeting etiquette looks like. 

When it comes to fostering professional communication across your organization in a virtual venue, there are a few areas of remote work etiquette that you’ll need to address. They can be broadly sorted into three buckets: 

1. How a person presents themselves and how they should interact with others 
2. How a person can manage their expectations of others and respect their coworkers 
3. How a person can respect their new office mates (partners, children, pets, potted plants) 

1. How to act 

Be on time 

This should go without saying, right? Respect that everyone has pressures on their time, and make an effort to be punctual. 

Make a considerate entrance 

Mute yourself when joining, particularly if there are multiple people in the call already. Then say hello when there’s a lull. 

Dress appropriately – trust us: wear some kind of pants that aren’t pajamas

For most workplaces, casual clothing is probably fine. Consider what’s appropriate for your office and corporate culture — hoodies, sure, explicit graphic tees … maybe not. And yes, always remember that you never know 100% that you won’t need to get up for something mid-Zoom session! 

Manage background noise as best you can, but don’t stress too much

Try to minimize the amount of noise for the sake of your colleagues. If you’ve scheduled meetings, try not to run the laundry machine that’s 6 feet behind you (just me?). Don’t worry too much about a few stray dog barks or kids laughing in the background. Most people understand, and we’ve got mute buttons for a reason. 

2. How to engage 

Be accommodating 

Recognize that different people are going to have different challenges working from home. Some may struggle with space, technical setup, internet speeds, other occupants, and other responsibilities. Do your best to be understanding. 

Respect work-life balance and boundaries 

Recognize that hard time limits still exist, even if people aren’t commuting or rushing to another meeting. There is a very real risk, when everyone’s office is their home, of blurring the lines between work-time and home-time, so respect the boundaries your colleagues might set between the two. 

Take a breath 

Make space in the conversation. It can be hard to pick up cues that someone is done talking or waiting to speak even without video lag, so make sure to leave a bit more time after asking questions or making statements to allow people to turn on their mic and respond. 

Lead with empathy 

Acknowledging the difficulty of the situation and making it explicitly clear that you’ll be flexible and understanding with your colleagues can do a lot to cut away additional stress. Let them focus on the task at hand, and not whether the chew toy they’ve given their pandemic puppy will keep them quiet for the full length of the meeting.  

3. How to live 

Coordinate with your cohabitant(s) 

If you live with a partner or roommate(s), take some time to go over daily schedules and needs. Check if they have a client call and need a shared office space to be quieter, for example. Give them an idea of when you’ll be (un)available, and ask them for the same information. 

Lead with empathy 

It goes without saying, doesn’t it? The people in your home are dealing with the same factors as the people you’re working with, be kind.  

Leave the office 

Step 1: Get some fresh air, and if you live with others, encourage them to do so as well. If your situation allows, go for a walk. Take out your kid, dog, or hey, even your cactus for some vitamin D. 

Step 2: Try to keep your work environment a little bit separated from your home. Everyone needs somewhere to retire to at the end of the day. Whether you have the luxury of leaving your home office, or you just tuck your laptop away on a shelf, let home be home for at least part of the day. It’s a small task that will benefit the whole household’s mental wellbeing. 

Extra resources to optimize remote work environments:

• 5 Easy remote team building activities
• Why video communication should be part of your internal strategy
• How to onboard remote employees